Junish
It's June again, and so it's also LGBTQ Pride Month. I have to admit that it's only the Third, and I'm already weary of the skirmishing between conservative Christians and Pride boosters, even if I understand the real and imagined stakes of the conflict.
It reminded me of Ross Douthat's Believe, which I read earlier this year. Chapter 6 is "Three Stumbling Blocks," barriers to returning to faith that Mr. Douthat believes people may encounter. After laying out his answers to "Why Does God Allow So Many Wicked Things to Happen?" and "Why Do Religious Institutions Do So Many Wicked Things?" he moves on to "Why are Traditional Religions So Hung Up on Sex?" (As an aside, I'm curious how he decided that these were the topics to tackle. Perhaps his readers who wrote to him about their vacillations over their choice to leave their faiths sought these answers.)
At one point in the section he notes:
It's possible to think that Christianity or Islam or any other faith is a locus of divinely revealed truth about the universe and that it's gotten sexual ethics almost completely wrong from the get-go. But there's a certain tension between those two beliefs, and it's hardly ridiculous to think that the second one substantially undermines the first. Come worship the God who revealed Himself to us, and who, by the way, let us go completely and cruelly wrong about sex and gender for several thousand years isn't an ideal pitch even if it seems to fit the spirit of the times.
Mr. Douthat then goes on to make his case that religions haven't gotten sexual ethics wrong, but that brings me to another thing that comes up every June: Juneteenth.
Now, when I first learned of Juneteenth, it was just something that people in Texas did to have another excuse for a barbecue. And I don't really pay any more attention to it now. But what's important here is that it doesn't draw sectarian fire in the same way that Pride month does. Even though one can make the case that God, by the way, let humanity go completely and cruelly wrong about owning other people as property for several thousand years.
If it's uncontroversial that Abrahamic acceptance of slavery was actively misguided, why is it so difficult to credit that Abrahamic sexual and gender ethics might also reasonably be considered to have outlived their usefulness? The Bible is pretty clear on the permissibility of owning slaves; Mosaic law doesn't beat around the bush on the topic. Sure, there are people who string together various parts of Scripture to make the case that the Bible actually condemns slave owning, but if that's the case it's remarkable that it took some eighteen centuries for the message to get across, and reasonable to ask why such a long delay.
To defend divine revelation that everyone ought to be either in a monogamous, cisgender, mixed-sex relationship or celibate for life, while discarding divine revelation that slavery is permissible and that slaves have responsibilities to their owners as flawed comes across as cherry-picking. While Mr. Douthat confidently states: "But the social history of the last few decades should, at the very least, disturb one's confidence that the world before the sexual revolution was simply oppressive and the world since simply more liberated and just," making the case that the social history of the period from June 19, 1865 to today should disturb one's confidence that the world before emancipation was simply oppressive, et cetera, would be to invite being pilloried as an unreconstructed racist. Perhaps I'm incorrect in this, but I can't see Mr. Douthat attempting to make the second case, despite the current state of the African-American community writ large.
The sectarian sniping over Pride Month, and whether or not LGBTQ people fit properly into some divine plan is pointless, and drives home the fact that religion can be completely (even if "cruelly" overstates things) out-of-step with modern ethical understanding; all in the name of a refusal to simply live and let live when Internet clout points are on the line.
